For your men that think it is a duty to give a woman an orgasm, likely, you will never hit the right spots until you change your attitude. While you have some responsibility here, lovemaking is not a task. You may think you have to hit the G-Spot with every intimate encounter off the bat, but it takes more than this to get her off.

Women need to feel stimulated in order to enjoy lovemaking. Men that fail to get his woman off will find increasing pleasures in learning some techniques. Men can find the right spots by acknowledging his woman's response to the areas he hits. As you move closer to the G-spot, naturally the woman may shrink away upon immediate stimulation. Instead of backing off from her recoil, continue, since most women rarely enjoy that moment when a man hits the right spot.

When you notice that your partner is excited, begin searching for the right spot. If you like, give her an orgasm and carry on. When a woman reaches the point of ecstasy, the sensations change, since the wall of the vagina and G-spot are shifting gears. At this time, you want to apply pressure. Be firm. Keep a close eye on her response, since her expressions will direct you to the point of no return.






A man can trigger the female G-Spot by using his tongue and finger. Using the fingers or tongue, insert it up to 3-inches, penetrating it into her vagina. The G-spot is different from each woman however. New discoveries tell us that after 30-years of age a woman's G-spot changes because of changes occurring in the tissue structure. Thus, a 30-year old woman and older gives a man easier access to the G-spot, which explains why women 30 feel like they have reached the highest peaks of their sexuality.

Inserting the finger for most women will guarantee that you hit the G-spot. Certain types of vibrators can also trigger the G-spot. If you are seeking the G-spot, use your fingers and the vibrator. Feel around. Keep in mind that some women do not like men inserting their fingers into the vagina. By keeping focused during intercourse, you can spot a woman that hates this act of pleasure.


Instead of feeling like a failure if you do not discover the G-spot, keep on the search until you find that spot that makes her squirm. Some women do not feel much sensation from touching the G-spot. In this case, use your tongue to stimulate the clitoris.

Locations for Sex

You're with your significant other, in bed, and doing what you usually do in bed when you're not sleeping. But, there's something wrong. You thrust (yawn). You grab (sigh). You lick (boooooring!) What's going on? Is the same old sex in the same old bed putting you into a coma?

There IS a solution! You don’t have to suffer dull intimate relations. One of the easiest ways to spice up the physical side of your romance is to switch locations.

Sex, like a novel, consists of characters, plot, and location. If you're not switching partners, or improving your technique, you're left with changing the locale. But don't be intimidated! You can start slow.

There are an infinite number of positions one can try in any given location. It's up to each couple to decide what's best for themselves. Each couple is like a snowflake, no two are physically the same.